Dudette Advice For Valentines Date

Advice for your Valentines Date (dudette version)



Guess some advice is good for the dating dudette.


If this is your first Valentines Date, you want to be sure that you do not mention certain things that will break (not make) your relationship. But of course if you want to stop seeing him, these are great ways to break up!



Stuff you don't want to talk about - Your Ex

What you like about him
-his jokes
-his laughter
-his body
-his eyes
-his job

What your parents like about him
-his mannerism
-his repair skills
-his dress sense

How much you miss him
-How much he broke your heart
-How you like that trip you went with him
-How he used to make you smile

Stuff you don't want to talk about - Your "caring" parents
What your parents do for you
-Wait up for you
-Check your cellphone messages
-Walk your dog

What your parents are going to do for you
-Buy you a car
-Buy you a house
-Bringing you on a 1 month trip

Stuff you don't want to talk about - Your pets
-What food they eat
-What you do for them

Stuff you don't want to talk about - Your BFF (best female friend)
-What she did on her date.
-What she thinks about him




Don't bring up anything that is remotely unpleasant or unhappy that will ruin your mood. Enough of what you should not speak of. Now, what can you say to make it an interesting date?








Stuff you want to talk about - Breaking the Ice
A simple smile tells him that you are happy to see him. What can do more?

Stuff you want to talk about -Maintain his attention
Look into his eyes and listen. Ask questions. Silly question to you but it tells him you are listening. Share with him your thoughts and ask him what he thinks. Keep thinking and talking and smiling.

Stuff you want to talk about -  Explore the environment
If you see something funny (like a guy wearing odd colored shirt or a clown walking a dog), tell him. Share with himand he will appreciate your sharing. Be yourself! You don't want to talk about every single thing but only those funny ones. If there ain't any, don't mention anything! And keep your eyes on him.

Stuff you want to talk about - What he is thinking 
Ask him what he is thinking. This will show that you are caring and shows concern about him. You can check if he likes who and who (your friends or her friends) or if he likes iPhone (if it is the trend now) or if he knows what she is going to do with the present you give him. Anything that makes him think of you.

Stuff you want to talk about - Mind Games
You can try to play simple games like tic-tac-toe or tell him some jokes (heard of why was the giraffe in the fridge?) Or simple games where you try to press down each other's thumbs while holding hands. He will like you for taking the initiative.

That's it for now :) Read here for dude version or read my other posts.

*Lynspirations
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